Index


Orientation to Life and Careers

Mary Sue Burkhardt

Child Care with a Future
Eleanor Keppler

Preventing Teen Dating Violence
John A. King

Conflict Resolution
Jean Pryzbylkowski

Southwestern Food Factory
Becky Newell

On the Bridge
Roxanne Trees

Conflict Resolution


Created by: Jean Pryzbylkowski

Introduction and Description

This program is a unit in which students learn the skills of effective communication, anger management, problem solving, and conflict resolution which are needed for living and working today and in the future.  The program is meant for middle or junior high school students to equip them with skills needed to effectively get along with a diverse population.  This program is intended to help young people learn to resolve problems in positive ways with their families and friends.

Description

Conflict Resolution/Getting Along With Others is a unit in which students learn the skills of effective communication, anger management, problem solving, and conflict resolution, which are needed for living and working today and in the future.  Ideally, the unit should be presented in the beginning of the first year of middle or junior high school so that developing adolescents are equipped with the skills needed to effectively get along with the diverse populations that populate our schools.   

A variety of methods are used to teach the unit and one method used is team teaching.  I was fortunate to have as a partner a FCS teacher who shared the same ideas about our field and the need for this unit to be taught.  We were able to combine our classes for many activities, which gave us the opportunity to model for our students cooperation, courtesy, teamwork, and respect which are the basis of getting along with others.  Many times, a student’s comments or situation in class prompted a spontaneous vignette by us to expand an idea or illustrate a point.  

Drama appeals to this age group and so magazine articles and stories such as The Wise Men and the Elephant are rewritten as plays.  Other techniques used are role-playing and drawing cartoons to practice skills.  We have even used a magic trick to transform put-downs into flowers.  Cooperative learning approaches are used when appropriate to teach students the value of collaboration and cooperation in the problem solving process.

Daily classes are based on the Elements of Effective Instruction model designed by Madeline Hunter.  An agenda for the lesson is posted which includes an anticipatory set, objectives, activities, guided practice and a summary. 

Songs and quotations are used for the anticipatory set, which help students focus on the concept of the lesson.  The music selections are coordinated with the music teacher who incorporates the songs into her curriculum.  The students learn to sing the songs and discuss the meaning of the lyrics in music class thereby reinforcing the concepts learned in Family and Consumer Sciences class.  Some of the songs used are That’s What Friends Are For, Lean On Me, Stand By Me, and Place In This World.

Quotations are also used to focus on the concept of the lesson and are displayed as posters in the classroom.  One quote used that is especially appropriate for conflict resolution comes from the Lancaster Mediation Center Handbook.  The statement is “We don’t always create the conflicts that enter our lives, but we can always choose our response to the conflict.”  This quote is referred to, not only during the unit, but also when a problem or conflict arises at other times.

At the end of the lesson, students are asked to reflect on the concepts of the lesson and relate the lesson to their personal life.  The reflections are written as we have found that this age group will reveal feelings in writing, but are reluctant to share their thoughts with their classmates.

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